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INTIMACY CARDS
Pick a card. Ask the question. Notice what happens.
The conversations you have been waiting to have: without needing to be the one to start them.
475 body-first prompts across four decks, built over 27 years with 650+ couples.
A 15-minute practice that goes where talking doesn't.
Instant access in your browser: no download needed. Works on any phone, tablet, or laptop.
Why I made these
380,000 people find this work every month.
For 27 years I have worked with 650+ couples and thousands of individual clients on one specific thing: bringing people back into sensation and contact with the ones they love.
The cards are the 15-minute practice I use in every session.
One card.
One person answers.
One thought at a time.
Three responses only.
I have watched this structure open rooms that had been closed for decades.
Now on your phone.
Based on The Dyad Technique
THE METHOD (the part nobody else sells you)
The questions are not the product. The method is.
Most of us do not listen to understand.
We listen to interject. We listen to project. We are already forming our answer before the other person has finished speaking.
These cards interrupt that, completely, for fifteen minutes at a time.
How it works:
Set a timer for fifteen minutes on one prompt.
One of you picks a card and reads it aloud.
Take turns answering. One thought, or one layer, at a time. Each turn, you go deeper on your OWN answer. Not on what they said.
One thought, or one layer, at a time. Not a story. Not a paragraph. One layer.
When you are the listener, you respond with ONE of THREE things. Nothing else:
△ Thank you (understood)
△ Clarify that (unpack something)
△ Summarise that (one clear thought)
Then switch. Speaker becomes listener. Listener becomes speaker. Same prompt..
Keep switching until the fifteen minutes are up. Layer by layer. At first you may be surface swimming. Then with each turn, deeper and deeper, until you find things about each other you may never have known in 23 years of marriage.
Summarise that is the superpower. It stops the other person going on and on. It stops you silently forming your answer while they are still talking.
No fixing. No correcting. No defending. No "yes but." No responding to what they just said.
Three responses. One prompt. Fifteen minutes. Each turn, a deeper layer of your OWN answer.
That is why the structure is so potent.
For lighter use: one turn each with kids. 3 to 5 turns each with close friends.
PAUSE. LISTEN. LET WHAT MATTERS TRULY LAND.
"After years of using the dyad with clients and watching 15 minutes a week change relationships entirely, I built this into cards - so anyone can have that structure at home."
Juliette Karaman
AS SEEN IN:
FOUR DECKS. FOUR DOORS INTO THE SAME ROOM.
475 prompts across four decks, built over 27 years with 650+ couples and thousands of individual clients.
Couples. Romantic Relationships · Intimacy & Repair · Touch & Desire · Healing & Growth · Play & Discovery.
Friends & Family. Family · Life · Stories & Growth · Beliefs & Emotions · Friendships & Belonging.
Trust & Repair. new. 50 cards for the specific conversation most couples are currently circling. The verbal repair. The kitchen rupture as the small version of something larger. £15. This is where most people start.
Touch Languages™. Emotional · Energetic · Spiritual · Physical · Erotic. This deck does not exist anywhere else.
The Intimacy & Communication Cards App gives you instant access.
£15 — Trust & Repair
£35 — 1 core deck:
Couples / Touch Languages / Family & Friends
£55 — Any two, save £15
£75 — All 3 core decks, save £30
£85 — All 4 decks [MOST POPULAR]
Not sure yet?
Try 5 cards from each deck for free before you buy.
What People Say...
"For the first time, I felt he heard me instead of defending himself."
Alice Woodrow
"These cards have changed how we communicate in difficult situations"
Alex Lee
"I learned something new about my father today, and it's brought us so much closer."
Tara Steward
- Naomi
- Nick
- Tara
- Zeina
Questions
What device does this work on?
Any device. The cards open in your browser: phone, tablet, or laptop. No download required. Your access link arrives by email the moment you pay.
Is this a subscription?
No. One payment, permanent access to the deck or decks you choose. Nothing renews.
Can I use the cards alone?
Yes. Many people use them solo -for reflection, morning practice, or to prepare for a conversation. Alone, you simply answer from the heart, best practice still is to use one card for several minutes, one thought per answer.
What's the difference between the decks?
Each deck opens a different room.
Trust and Repair is the entry point - 50 cards for the specific conversation most couples are currently circling.
The Couples edition is the everyday practice - connection, desire, the slow drift.
The Family and Friends edition reaches beyond the romantic relationship - parents, siblings, friends, the wider field.
The Touch Languages how you are being touched by life.
Can I buy one deck now and add more later?
Yes. Each deck is priced separately.
If you start with Trust & Repair at £15 and want to add a core deck later, simply purchase it when you're ready.
The Everything bundle at £85 is the best value if you think you'll want all four.
You can keep managing the quiet.
Or you can open a card on your phone tonight.
Fifteen minutes a week. A structure that works. Connection that stays.
P.S. 27 years. 650+ couples. Thousands of individual clients.
The cards are on your phone the second you pay. Start tonight.
Want the physical cards instead?
The Couples edition, The Touch Languages, and The Family and Friends edition are available as physical card boxes.
Heavyweight card stock. Matte finish.
Ships from the UK.
1 deck £47 · 2 decks £77 · All 3 decks £111 + shipping
Trust & Repair is digital-only :
included in the Everything bundle at £85.